The results are out, the grades are up and your name
isn't on the list of passes. You failed that important exam and
everything seems to be getting away from you - don't believe it
Failing an exam is not the end of the story - it merely
adds an interesting twist!
Fail your exam - so what happens now? It seems like the end of
the world has been and gone, doesn't it? In fact, you have just had a
minor setback which, if you handle it in a businesslike and professional
manner, not only need not hamper you, but can actually be used as a
plus. Don't believe me? I've done it!
You may feel that you did your best and, even if you were given
another chance, you would probably give the same or similar answers and
merely fail again. Sometimes the reason behind failure is not obvious.
Another thing which it is not is the end of the world. Whatever exam you
have failed, however important it is and no matter how badly you failed
it, nothing is irreparable. There are resits, there are other exam
boards and there are other subjects and careers.
If you have had the misfortune to fail an examination and are just
beginning to panic or if the panic has set in and you cannot see a way
forward then we hope the following will be of use.
First of all, now is the time to be completely honest with yourself.
You need to answer the following questions as frankly and as truthfully
as you can. No-one need know the answers but you but if you are not
completely honest then they will delay your recovery and may cause you
to fail again.
- How hard did you work revising for the exam?
- How badly do you need to pass this particular exam?
- Is there an alternative examination board or level which would
achieve the same goal but which is more appropriate to your skills?
If you feel that you paced yourself just right then skip the first
question. On the other hand if you did not take it seriously enough and
put your social life first then you know the solution. If you worked
very hard for the exam then it could be you 'over-cooked' it. Athletes
have to be very careful when coming up for the Olympics or other major
event. If they come to their peaks too soon then they are 'past their
best' on the day the gold medal is handed out. If you worked too hard
and did too much that often achieves a very similar result to not having
done enough. Talk to your school or a counsellor about pacing yourself
if this applies to you.
Exams often only get you your first job or a place at a preferred
university. After that they are forgotten. Ask a 30-year old about their
exam passes and they may well struggle to remember. It just isn't
important to them any longer. Can you get a letter from your school
saying your failure was out of character? Will your university take you
with this letter or can you still get the job you want. Don't forget an
employer will not be displeased to hear you have been guilty of
overworking!
There are a number of examination boards and there are other levels
to consider. Just because you have been brought up thinking about a
particular level it does not mean that other ones are not valid. Adults
rarely take the same levels as teenagers - they often go for a more
practical examination. Would this suit you? Don't feel that it will
necessarily hamper you - a good interviewer will be interested in your
originality and will be pleased to hear your views of the alternative
qualification.
Before you decide to do take a resit, do think through the foregoing.
If you still wish to retake the exam you failed, then you need to
thoroughly investigate your reasons for failure. Painful as it may be,
get hold of a copy of the paper and the answers (if possible) and relive
it moment-by-moment. Where did it all go wrong?
Remember that failing an exam does not make you a failure. Everybody
is good at some things and bad at others. We all have off-days and we
all shine on occasions. Welcome to the human race! Nobody has any
business judging you by an off-day so don't let them. Your self-esteem
is a priceless commodity and you will need it in plentiful supply if you
are to get through the black days that may follow. The most important
thing is how you handle failing the exam.
Finally, don't forget you aren't the first and certainly won't be the
last person to fail an exam.

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